Perceptions are Reality

In life, our perceptions color our reality. Everyday and in everything we do. We have an initial reaction to something and pre-conceived notions about it immediately. This is hard-wired into our brains and it's how we look for patterns in the world around us. Without patterns, we would need to relearn things over and over each day. On it's face, to say that everyone has perceptions (that may be entirely false) about things or people, sounds like a bad thing. It sounds like something that we need to work on and transcend somehow. But we are all human and this is how we work. Perceptions shape who we are, how we learn to react to things, how we act. In essence, our perceptions create our reality. The key is to recognize that everything is always seen through the individual, unique colored lenses that we each wear and to respect and honor that THAT is what makes up reality.

 

Gettin' Happy

We recently had a screening of the movie Happy in the studio. Really great movie and I highly recommend it to all! Some of the things that I found most fascinating are these:

- 50% of a person's happiness is genetic! What?? I had always believed that we were solely in charge of our own destinies, but it turns out that some people are pre-disposed to be unhappy. But don't despair, there are plenty of things that you can do to turn it around!

- Only 10% of a person's happiness is determined by external factors such as wealth & social status. In fact, they say that once all basic necessities of life are taken care of such as food, water, shelter, the greater wealth you accumulate has little to no baring on whether or not you will be happy in life. The movie cites a stat that says that the difference in happiness between someone who makes $5000 a year and $50,000 a year is exponential, but there is no difference in happiness between someone that makes $50,000 and $50 Million.

- A full 40% of a person's happiness is determined by what a person intentional does in life, how they decide to spend their days and how they think about things. It other words, is completely determined to you.

- Want to be happier? The happiness researchers in the movie suggest 4 things -

1. Exercise regularly - it increases dopamine in the brain and highly contributes to feeling happy.

2. Invest in your community. Again, when people collaborate with one another (on anything positive) and help each other, dopamine secretions skyrocket in the brain! Just getting out, talking with people and being involved in your community can create a feeling similar to a drug-induced euphoria!

3. Meditation - The simple act of turning inward and training your mind to calm down and reflect can leave you with feelings of contentment and general well-being.



4. Finally, there are small things that you can do everyday to increase your overall life happiness - naming one thing that you are grateful for everyday, committing a 'random act of kindness' - like helping an elderly person across the street, feeding an expired parking meter or picking up your neighbor's mail.

So here's to gettin' HAPPY.

Why Every Mom should do Yoga

Parenthood is hard. It can be overwhelming and is all-consuming. Parents are constantly bombarded with media (and friends and family) giving us advice about every aspect of of children's life from the correct shoes to the right schools to healthy foods. Until I had my children, I had always felt confident in the decisions I made, after I had children, I was consistently doubting myself and confused.

I discovered yoga after the birth of my second child. Yes, I was looking for a tighter butt, BUT I was also looking for an outlet to find and center myself with out the demands of motherhood and everyday life. All day and night I was worrying about my children, wondering about the best diapers to use or whether they were eating enough - I needed to take a time out.

After I started to do yoga, these questions and problems that I felt torn about seemed to just melt away. I was more able to connect with my intuition as a parent and know that whatever decision I made was the right one for my children. Yoga connected me with myself. Yoga quieted the noise and advice from the outside just long enough for me to uncover what was already there - the answers.

I think parents (especially moms) make the mistake all the time of wanting or feeling like they need to be with their children 24/7. They think that their children need to be with them all the time. They say they are too busy to take time to do yoga or anything else that involves a certain level of selfishness. Let me tell you - what your children want is for you to be happy. In relationships, we hear the advice that you need to love yourself before you can begin to love anyone else. I think that the same is true in parenthood. You need to take the time out for yourself to be the best parent you can to your children. You need to back away and reconnect with yourself to be better able to make clear parenting decisions and to be able to juggle the demands of children and family life.

So, my advice, take the time to get to yoga class. Connect with your breath, your body and your mind. Do it for yourself and your children.




My Yoga Journey, Year 1 - The Physical

Everyone tells you that yoga takes time and consistent practice to make progress. I have been practicing off and on for 4 years now, but only since Tula has been open (almost a year) has my practice been what I would say is 'consistent'. I practice about 3-4 times per week. Yes, I have weeks where I don't practice at all, but then weeks where I am going everyday. I feel that I have made significant progress over the last year and here's what physical changes I have seen.

1. First, it was Chaturanga Dandasanas. They used to kill me. I would feel strong for the first 1 or 2, but then my arms would shake and tremble and I would kind of fall to the floor in one uncontrolled movement. Then one day, they were all smooth, strong and controlled! I noticed that my arms were tighter and I even saw some muscle definition! It was an amazing feeling went I went into class confident in my ability to do a chaturanga without alot of strain.

2. Next was increased flexibility. I could do side-angle, triangle, and even warrior 3 without a block! I noticed that when I would go into them, the poses would suddenly open up to me and I started to feel things in these poses that I never had. I could lean back more in triangle, stretch further in side angle, get my legs straight and start to balance in warrior 3. I could actually 'open' my chest more, twist deeper, even breathe!

3. CROW! Previous to this year, crow pose was an anomaly to me. I just didn't get it. Teachers would say to look forward, pull your core up, grip the mat with your fingers, keep your knees to your arm pits..... so much going on and I would end up in an exhausted pile on the floor with sore wrists and bruises on my arms. One day, it clicked and I could hold it - 2 seconds, 10 seconds, 20 seconds.....yes!

4. Finally, the handstand (at the wall). Again, I had tried to kick up into it so many times and it just felt impossible. Where's the friggin' wall? Why can't I do this? My arms are strong, my core is somewhat strong? I would literally fall sideways when I got to a certain point with my hips over my shoulders. Again, with aching wrists and a pounding head. Then, I mustarded the courage and did it. So fun. I'm hooked.

I can't wait to see what happens in year 2......

Where has your yoga journey taken you?



Guest Blog Post by Joan Lee



This is written by guest blogger/yogini Joan Lee. Joan was a Tula staple and moved to NYC a couple of weeks ago.  Tula and all of its people will miss her something fierce.  She is a beautiful spirit.
Yoga happened for me last November, precisely when I probably needed it the most, whether I knew it or not.
Last fall found me a bit of an existential mess.  A couple months prior, I had finished a two-year master’s program that had proven to be demanding and completely soul-crushing.  Upon graduating, however, I wasn’t filled with a sense of fist-pumping joy, but instead was consumed by anxiety at the thought of having to face the unknowable, ever-changing, unstable world.  Despite the fact that I had successfully finished my degree and secured a good job, I realized that after the rat race of grad school, the lack of self-dialogue and alignment with myself was catching up to me to seriously kick my ass.
Amidst all of that inner-chaos I managed to find Tula.  Here I must thank my awesome next-door neighbor/hairdresser who told me that the new yoga studio in the neighborhood was pretty good.  So I decided to check it out at 8:30am one Sunday morning.  And while I don’t believe yoga is something for one to be good or bad at, I can say that I looked and felt a mess that first class.  But I kind of liked it.  Unlike the type-A, crazy person that grad school brought out of me, I loved that practicing yoga on my mat was a release for me to be straight-up silly, to try things that seemed a bit absurd (you want me to balance on my chin?).  I came to embrace all of my shortcomings- every faceplant, tight hamstring, unfulfilled pose- and over time I didn’t consider these things to be shortcomings at all, instead I felt a deeper connection to myself, and, gasp!, even a sense of appreciation for myself.
In retrospect, yoga happened for me at a time when I was consciously attempting to shed the cynicism, to choose happiness and to accept love as guiding principles in my life.  I had adopted the mantras of being kind to myself and keeping an open heart and open mind to the world.  And yoga was a great outlet for me to practice these things until they started sticking.
In addition to increased flexibility and physical strength, the unexpected awesome cherry on top of this whole yoga journey of mine has been meeting all of the amazing yoga friends that I have made over the past ten months, including Cassi!  When I began taking yoga classes, I loved the anonymity I had in class while on my mat, but to my surprise, having a supportive community of big-hearted, compassionate people has been one of the highlights of my Chicago life- and one of the hardest things I have had to say goodbye to this last month!  Believe me, I was seriously having second thoughts about moving after some truly lovely yoga ladies surprised me with bubbly and chocolate pie after my last yoga class!
It’s so ironic that through becoming a part of a community of really supportive and encouraging friends, I felt empowered to make the decision to move to New York, thereby forcing what feels like a premature goodbye from my friends! But I think this is what yoga is about- experiencing and feeling grateful for the present and then letting go when the time comes.  And I can see how I’ve changed through my yoga practice; I am aligned with myself and able to be more at peace with the unknowable, ever-changing, unstable world that I live in.
So I’ve been a New Yorker for about two weeks now, and despite my homesickness, I am trying out a new yoga home in Brooklyn.  It’s good… different, but that’s ok!
Through all of the experiences I’ve had via yoga at Tula and during the past year, I am grateful for everything that transpired before this moment and excited for all that is waiting to be discovered! Miss you Cassi and everyone at Tula!

Paper Airplanes


My kids, who are 4 and 6, just discovered paper airplanes. These airplanes have now entertained them for a whole day and 1/2. As I helped them fold the paper this morning, I realized how strange it is that they never had a paper airplane before. Of the 3 1/2 years that I stayed home with them, I never thought of making a paper airplane, though I searched high and low for ways to entertain them. It reminded me that in a world full of high-tech iPad games, and complicated, expensive toys and crafts, sometimes the best ideas are the simplest and we often forget that.

Are you looking for a good idea? Maybe the answer is as simple as a paper airplane.


Motivation

Motivation is a complicated thing. Marketers, psychologists and parents all would love to know the exact formula for motivating people to do something. As a Psychology major (in college and grad school), there were entire classes and textbooks written about motivation. We do know that there seems to be 2 basic types of motivation - Intrinsic and Extrinsic. Extrinsic motivation is doing something because you think that it will get you an external reward - money, friends, beauty, etc. Most advertisers go after this type of motivation because it is easy to identify and appeal to. Throw a beautiful girl on top of a car and men will want to buy the car because they think it will get them the girl. Simple.

On the other hand, intrinsic motivation is the type of motivation that is very hard to identify and appeal to. It is also much more powerful than extrinsic motivation. Once it takes hold, it is hard to break. This is doing something purely for the joy of it. There are not necessarily any external rewards. This is not easily tapped into by marketing or advertising and for everyone it is different. It is deep within us.

As a yoga studio owner, it is part of my job to sell. I believe, however that I am not trying to sell just yoga. Yoga pretty much speaks for itself. Everyone knows that they should do it and that it is good for them. What I am trying to sell is motivation. The motivation to come to class after a long day at work. The motivation to want a healthy body and mind and be willing to do the work to get it.

I introduced the "motivation membership" based on extrinsic motivation theory - the more you come to class, you get an external reward, money back in your pocket. BUT I know that this type of motivation is not going to work as a long-term strategy for getting you to class - you have to begin to love it. You have to begin to see changes in your body and mind to keep it up for the long haul. After awhile, you will need to begin to become intrinsically motivated by wanting to come to class, mastering different poses and making progress.

I am hoping that the money incentive will work as a sort of 'hook' to get you in, but that ultimately, you will find joy in yoga and want it in your life forever. Simple.

Naivety is an Asset

When someone calls you naive it tends to be taken as an insult. I believe, however, that being naive can be an asset and it has been to me, personally, in business and in yoga.

First, the personal - when I moved to Chicago almost 13 years ago, I knew NOTHING about Chicago. I didn't have friends here nor did I have any connections or insights into the city. I came here for grad school and then planned to move back to San Francisco ASAP! I did what research I could do about where to live. I heard that Lincoln Park was a good neighborhood, so I found an apartment there. Although I had no serious problems, I know now that I overpaid for my tiny apartment, I couldn't park my car anywhere to save my life and I had to take 2 super-slow bus rides to school and work everyday because a train was nowhere in miles. I also got my car broken into twice! After a year, I moved. I moved to Wicker Park. At the time, it was not filled with the designer shops and yuppie condos. People that I met asked me if I lived alone - yes, why? Isn't that neighborhood sketchy? I don't think so. I had the best time in Wicker Park. I hopped on the Blue line everyday, I parked within 5 min of coming home, I walked to new restaurants and bars. I never had a break-in. I was naive about the area in general and it was an advantage. If I had been 'educated' about the area, I may have been too afraid to move there and I wouldn't have discovered this gem of a neighborhood.

In business - If you know me, you know that I am not a yoga instructor and I am far from a yoga expert. I just wanted to open my own business and loved yoga. Therefore, I did not know much (and still don't) about the Chicago yoga scene, politics or industry. I am naive. This has served me to date in so many ways. I am not afraid (because I don't really know what to be afraid of). I make decisions based on how I think things should work, not just because they have always been done that way. I question assumptions. When people ask me sometimes why I do certain things, I often say "why not?" I believe that this has made Tula unique and has contributed much to our success so far.

In yoga - As with the personal and the business aspects, I believe that a certain amount of naivety can also serve you in your yoga practice. There are so many stereotypes of people who do yoga. If you had done much research about yoga and the yoga world before starting a practice - you may not have started. There are books about how it can 'wreck your body', there are articles about how yoga is just a big sex-cult, there are on-going debates and drama around the 'right' types of yoga. If you google YOGA, you usually end up with images of either old, Indian men in white cloths doing yoga on a mountain top or the Lululemon-clad skinny-minnies who can put their feet behind their heads. Most people do not fit into either of these 2 categories. I believe that people should come to yoga with a clear head. These images and preconceived notions often do little more than to frighten people and keep people from trying it out themselves and making yoga their own.

So the next time someone calls you naive, take it as a compliment and know that being naive can potentially open up the world of endless, fearless possibilities to you.

The Perfect Yoga Class

You arrive a bit early to settle in. You enter the warm room, lay down and close your eyes. You hear music and people begin to file in. Laughter and friends surround you with the swoosh of mats hitting the floor. The Guide comes in, turns off the music and begins. Your Guide instructs you to leave the world outside behind, to concentrate on your breath, to escape, to center and set your intention. You begin to move slowly until your hips are a bit open, your back is warm and your core is awakened. You begin to flow- a dreamy, wavy flow. You don't have to think, your Guide cues you, but you move with your breath. The music gets louder, you are challenged, strengthened, stretched and twisted. You begin to come alive. You hear your breath and the beat of the music in your head as your body moves. You take every pose in, truly feel it. Dynamic energy flows from the top of your head to your fingertips and toes and back again. Your Guide softly touches you, moves you one step closer to the edge and your body responds with a sigh. Just when you think that you cannot take another breath, that you cannot take another second of holding, you are released. Your cheeks blush red, your heart beats faster, you feel charged, strong and powerful. The music and lights lower. Your muscles relax, you feel emotions release, the head chatter is gone. Your Guide invites you to rest. You loosen your jaw, your shoulders, as your head sinks into the mat. You exhale the day, inhale a new beginning. You slowly let the ohm resonate through your chest, rise up and connect with the others echoing through the room. You bow in absolute gratitude. You have found peace, if only for an hour.

Survey Results

We received 122 responses to our Student Survey! Thank you so much for being such an awesome, engaged community of people!

I wanted to take this opportunity to respond to some of the reoccurring questions, comments, etc.
  • Music - Most instructors use music and some instructors do not. I leave it up to the instructors themselves to make their own playlists (although the studio has some available to use as well). They are in charge of the studio environment once their class begins. Also, I know that our music system sometimes cuts in and out and we are working to rectify this. Because our system is wireless it relies on our internet connection and as you know, this is not always perfect - we are working to find a reliable back-up.
  • Bike racks - I put in a request with the City to install bike racks on October 11, 2011. I heard it can take up to a year for them actually to be installed.....
  • Pricing/Student Discounts - My pricing at $15 for a drop-in, one hour, HEATED Vinyasa class is competitive with other studios and the Chicago market. As many people know and have taken advantage of, I have purposely made ways in which those on a fixed budget can fit yoga into their lives (not just students) - once a week free classes, once a month donation classes, you can share memberships and class packages and they never expire! I have also run 3 specials so far for discounts on packages and will be running another in April. Finally, I will be offering a new class package for those of you that want to make a year's commitment to yoga at a deeper discount - One Year, Unlimited at $1200.
  • Unheated classes- I know it feels like summer now, but it's really not :) We will be turning the heat off for many of our classes starting in June. Stay tuned!
  • Beginners/Advanced classes- I am a big believer in Mixed level classes. I think that beginners can learn so much more and see what is possible when they see more advanced students in the room and the advanced students benefit by consistently being reminded of alignment and the general basics of yoga that they can continue to build upon. That being said, I will be adding one Advanced class for seasoned practitioners to work more on advanced poses that may not be possible in a Mixed Level class - 2:00pm on Saturdays with Diana AND we will be working on a Beginner's Workshop series that we will hold a few times a year that will serve as a good starting point for a yoga practice.
  • Retail- We will be getting in some more Tanya-B and Be Love clothes in the coming weeks. I am also looking into FOAT Design as another potential unique yoga clothing offering at Tula.
  • Online Calendar - We are aware of the 'cutting off' of the names of classes on the calendar and we are diligently working on a fix for this. In the meantime, I will be modifying the schedule so that the number of minutes of the class is easier to see and if you have any questions, please call the studio at 773.620.9945.
One comment on the survey that actually made my heart sink a bit was that we were not a Beginner's Studio because of the 30-day "brag board" hanging in the front. The 30-day challenge was one of the most inspiring, fun things that I feel that Tula has done (so far). I know that a number of people that took part in this challenge were very new to yoga and doing this has inspired them to keep up a regular practice! One of them even went to Yoga Teacher Training because of it! So it was not meant to be a 'brag board' - it was an inspiring and motivational way to track people's attendance (that wanted to, of course). I hope that whoever wrote this comment is willing to see this other side. It will definitely be an annual tradition at Tula.

Overall, the comments and ratings were overwhelmingly high and positive and I feel we are on the right track with what you as the community wants in your local yoga studio. If you have any other thoughts, please do not hesitate to email me at maile@tulayoga.net or you can give us a review on YELP and let others know about our amazing community.

Namaste.


How Yoga has Shaped my Music: A Guest Blog Post

Greetings Tula! My name is Neil Dixon Smith, I’m a classical guitarist based here in Logan Square. I’ll be performing live music for the special Earth Hour Restorative class being taught by Kristen Folkes on March 31 at 8:30pm at Tula. Being Earth Hour, this means no electricity, so expect some beautiful candlelight to go with the soothing nylon strings and calm Latin rhythms. This is going to be a really beautiful experience for all who come out.

I am especially excited for this opportunity as yoga has had a huge impact on my development as a classical guitarist. I thought I would take this opportunity to write a little something for the Yoga Community to share a couple ways of how my yoga practice has shaped my music.

Although I have been playing guitar since I was twelve, I didn’t get into learning classical guitar technique until I was in my 30’s (I’m 43 now). Fortunately for me, I had years of yoga under my belt (with a warm shout to Ema Stefanova, a truly excellent yoga teacher based in Ann Arbor, MI, to whom I owe so much).

As I began my transition in essentially re-learning how to play from scratch, I drew considerably from the processes and wisdom I had gained from yoga. Simply put, I would not have progressed on the instrument as I did without yoga, and it greatly informs my playing each time I pick up a guitar.

So whether or not you play a musical instrument, I hope you find this interesting and perhaps inspiring some thoughts about how yoga has shaped your life outside the studio.

As I reflect on the impact of yoga on my continuing development as a guitarist, most significant, of course, is the awareness of breath. When you’re a yoga beginner, doing your first sun salutation sequences, you struggle to match the proper inhales and exhales with the appropriate movement, but over time and practice, it all becomes a flow. Over more time, on your best days, your practice will feel like it is all breath, in that magical mix of concentration and relaxation.

As a classical guitarist, I perform in all sorts of different contexts. Sometimes I’m in very public spaces, full of distraction (such as a restaurant or farmer’s market) and sometimes I’m in very intense and nerve-wracking situations (such as playing in a concert setting, or a very formal wedding ceremony). I might be asked to play for 3-4 hours, which may end up being 50-60 pieces of pretty sophisticated compositions, performed from (muscle) memory. In order to do them justice, without fatigue, and with a sincere emotional investment, I must be in top condition, unfazed by my surroundings while being aware of and playing to the moment.

What is the first thing any of us do when we become flustered, frustrated or freaked out while performing a task? We lose control of our breath. Unwittingly holding it in for long stretches, or just breathing erratically, furthering a downward spiral that can lead to out of control movements, negative self-talk and just plain wearing yourself out.

Whether I’m learning a particularly difficult passage in a composition, or warming up for a performance, I start with my focusing on my breath. Before I begin to a play set in front of any audience, I have a few set pieces of music that I always begin with, which like a sun salutation I know how to breathe through though years of conditioning. This practiced, ritualistic awareness helps center my attention, quiet any internal dialog, as well channel the resources to my hand muscles to maximize the effectiveness of my technique. That is, I play a whole lot better. And when I do begin to feel as though I’ve momentarily lost control, or have become distracted, my first thought is always to get back to prana, and soon enough I’m back on my best.

The second sphere of influence I’ll mention is in the process of improvement itself. Learning classical guitar technique is a marvelous course in the engineering of the human body. To be able to play the most amount of notes possible (ie, all the notes the composer wants you to play), with the greatest range of dynamics, at the greatest level of comfort, there exists a centuries-honed method of playing. It involves the striving for perfect posturing to maximize efficiency, engaging only the muscles necessary to get the job done, while relaxing all muscles not engaged in the task…sound familiar?

And like a 2 minute hand stand, it’s there for you to do, too – with the right effort, of course. Slow, daily, incremental, maddening, magnificent progress. Over months, and over years. There are simple exercises you begin with, which then evolve to become the foundations towards longer sequences of musical events (hand and finger postures and motions), and ultimately to elaborate physical routines known as “songs”. The process of reaching this stage automatically opens the doors to new paths and new possibilities.

Because of yoga, I knew that the rewards of practice are sometimes slow to the point of imperceptibility. But it is the power of teaching, and the knowledge that these are indeed time-tested traditions, that keep you ever going forward. There is that moment that comes when after months of trying to play a particularly tough passage, suddenly I’m doing it. It is its own reward, and a guarantee that that next difficult passage will be slightly easier to get.

When it comes down to it, I love yoga because it always about improving. When I would visit my guitar mentor every other week, he would always ask in his broken English, “what progress do you have for me today?”. And to me, yoga is forever a lesson in how to keep getting better at the things we do.

You can learn more about me on my website:

http://neildixonsmith.com

Create your Own Path

Lately, I have been considering going through yoga teacher training. The dilemma here is the fact that I already own a studio, so I don't want to give my money to another studio to train me. I've gotten many suggestions from going on a out of town retreat to bringing in some master instructors, not associated with a specific studio, to train me.

The other obvious option here is to start up my own training program at Tula. I am in the unique position where I don't have to interview/audition for a job when I'm done with training, therefore I can more easily seek my own path in learning how to teach yoga. This is liberating and at the same time, a bit scary. Why am I so scared to do something different? Because in America, it is ingrained in us from an early age that we should attend 'prestigious' schools, learn from master teachers, hold certifications, obtain the right credentials, build beautiful resumes and look good on paper. In addition to this, in the yoga industry, there is a big emphasis placed on lineage. If there are no formal standards or checklist of things that I need to learn, how can I effectively learn to teach? If I learn to teach yoga from my favorite teachers/friends, am I then destined to not be a very good teacher? If I don't seek certifications, credentials or a stamp of approval from the Yoga Alliance or other governing yoga association, will I ever be taken seriously?

I would argue that I am just as able to become a great teacher. Some of the world's greatest teachers, and other professionals (chefs, artists, musicians, athletes, etc) were self-taught, dropped out of formal schools and created their own path to their life's purpose, paved purely with passion, hard-work, drive and talent. I would even go so far as to say that they may be better at what they do than their more formally trained counterparts because they created their own path - they had to seek out their own inspiration, draw upon their own experiences, answer their own questions. They may be better at keeping an open mind to differing viewpoints and theories. They may be better at blending different techniques to come up with their own unique ideas. In the book, Yoga Beyond Belief, Ganga White writes "We cannot learn to fly by following the tracks left by birds in the sand. We must find our own wings and soar."

Even strongly believing all of these things, I am still scared. I am scared of people asking "who are you?" or "what do you know?". But I know this is just my lizard brain talking and it's slowly getting quieter......

Please share with me how you have created your own path to something you wanted. What were the pros/cons of doing this?

30 Days of Yoga


Thirty days ago today, we gave people a challenge. Do yoga for everyday for 30 consecutive days at Tula and you will receive your next 30 days for free. Quite a few of our monthly members signed up. We also had a few new people sign up and some instructors. We started with 25 challengers.

The first few weeks, I heard things like "30 days is so long" and "how will ever do this". We sent them a few motivational emails and had a few drawings for prizes along the way - just to keep their spirits up! What I found amazing, was the passion and commitment people came into class with everyday. They were genuinely excited about placing their star sticker for the day on the chart. People integrated a trip to the studio into their everyday routines - really powerful stuff. These people saw each other everyday, they connected, made friends on the mat. There were a few days along the way that were tough for people - soreness, sickness, snowstorms and life got in the way of their daily trek to the studio, but even the people that missed a day or so picked right up where they left off - determined to see it through. I think that we still are not sure what can motivate people, but when everything falls into place in just the right way and you see with your own eyes that determination and force of that inner drive, it is truly phenomenal. In the greater scheme of things, this was just 30 days of yoga, but in a small way it shows me that anything is possible.

Thirty days ago, I wasn't sure if anyone would complete the challenge. Today I am so proud to say that 12 people have. Tomorrow, I will be putting up a new attendance chart with hopes that this is only the first leg of their life-long journey with yoga.

Challengers- please comment on this post and let me know how this experience was for you!

Heat

I've been getting a lot of comments and questions about the 'heated' Vinyasa classes that we offer at Tula lately. I am discovering that their are a lot of people that are afraid of the heat. I've heard "I hate getting hot/sweaty", "the heat makes me sick", "what's with the heat?", etc. On the other hand, I also get people that make comments about our studio not being hot enough. They want to come out of class soaked by sweat and are disappointed when they are not. I want this post to explain why I chose for my studio to offer heated classes and also explain what kind of 'heat' you will experience at Tula, so that you are not afraid to check it out.

Why did I chose to do mostly 'Heated' Vinyasa?

It's pretty simple - it's what I prefer. I started doing yoga in a hot room and when I would take classes in a 'cold' room, they just were not the same to me. I love the warmth and the way that the heat warms and loosens your muscles. I love the feeling of being just a bit sweaty so that you feel like you are detoxifying. In the winter, it is wonderful reprieve from the cold outside!

The Heat at Tula

I have taken Bikram yoga classes and can tell you the heat at Tula is nowhere near this. Bikram yoga studios are set at 105 degrees, but with many bodies crowded into a room, is is not uncommon for the temperature to push 110. This makes me feel sick. In my opinion, you are not suppose to feel sick after yoga.

I have taken many other Hot yoga classes around town as well. Some were still too hot for me. I don't like it when I am so hot and sweaty that I am concentrating more on trying not to slip on my mat than on the actual pose. It makes me tense, stressed and distracted. Again, not what I think yoga should do to you. I don't want there to be pools of sweat around my mat and sweat being flung in my direction by the person next to me. Yuck.

At Tula, I try to have a good, moderate heat. The temp is usually set to 92 degrees in our heated classes. Depending on the number of people in the room, the temperature may rise by a few degrees, but because of the large size of our studio (about 1500 sq. ft. with 17' ceilings), it may also feel slightly cooler than this. We also always have our ceiling fans on low because it helps to blow the heat down to the floor. So you may feel a bit of a breeze from time to time. I believe that this is just the right amount of heat. It's not suffocating and it's only 'sweaty' if you are vigorously moving and/or enjoying an especially challenging yoga class. It does what I want it to do, warm your muscles, relax you and allows you to enjoy your practice. I purposely chose to label the classes at Tula as 'heated' rather than 'hot' because I believe this more accurately describes the temperature in our studio.

The bottom line is, try the heated classes at Tula because it may be different than what you think!




What does non-intimidating mean?

I had an instructor ask me the other day if I thought she was intimidating and it struck me that people may have different ideas about what intimidation means. I thought that I would express to you what it means to me and why I strive for Tula to always be approachable, welcoming and non-intimidating.

Let's start with the Dictionary definition of intimidate - To make timid or fearful.

As a yoga student in Chicago long before I was a studio owner, I had many wonderful experiences with yoga studios and instructors. With these wonderful experiences, I also had some not so great experiences. Looking as to why these experiences were not so great, I realized that most often it had little to do with the actual yoga instruction. It had to do mostly with the energy of the environment and a lot of the peripherals outside of the yoga class itself. To me, these are the things that would make a studio either intimidating/fearful or non-intimidating/welcoming to me.

No Rules, just Yoga. While I understand the intention is good, I find a lot of rules and regulations to be somewhat stressful. I have been to classes and studios where they have so many rules about 'proper' yoga etiquette that you are so focused on conforming and trying not to break the 'rules' that you can lose sight of the full yoga experience - letting go. At Tula, you may notice a lack of many of the typical rules and regulations. No complicated forms to sign, no posted rules about turning cell phones off, taking shoes off, no talking, etc. You can share, transfer and never fear that your class packs will expire - you paid for them, you should be able to do what you want with them. And what happens when you strip away these rules? Mass chaos? No, you get people that are genuinely respectful to each other, the space and the practice.

Slowing down. The irony is not lost on me that many people around the city 'rush' to relax at their yoga classes. At Tula, you can be late to class. We won't lock the door on you. You are welcome any time.

Being welcomed. I have been to studios where even if you are a new person, no one even shows you where the bathroom is. No one asks your name. You are basically left to your own devices. We will always show you where things are and make sure you are comfortable.

English, please. This is a tough one because I appreciate the Sanskrit names of poses. There is a calming, relaxing resonance to me just hearing someone say Chanturanga Dandasana. However, when I was a beginner, I would hear these names and frantically look around the room and try to figure out what exactly to do with my body. Instructors at Tula are advised to help beginners, say the English names of poses (in addition to the Sanskrit name) and make sure that you are able to at least attempt a pose with all the information required to do so.

Advanced Yogis are welcome too. Some people may think of places as intimidating if there are many fit, flexible yogis doing handstands and complicated backbends in class. To me, this is not intimidating, this is inspiring. There is a saying in yoga that you need to be happy with where you are- today. I love the idea of mixed level classes because people can learn from each other. So, at Tula, you may find a class full of fit bendable yogis or a class full of stiff beginners - just be happy with where you are and imagine the possibilities.

Have a sense of humor. This is a big one. I love teachers that take yoga seriously, but not themselves. We should be able to laugh at ourselves. Yoga is fun and sometimes funny. At Tula, don't be surprised if there is a lot of laughing in class.

To sum it up - I wanted my yoga to come with a sense of belonging, community, so that's the studio I aimed to build. I'm sure there are many people out there that just want a workout and go about their busy lives. I want a long savasana, I want to be asked how I am feeling, I want to be introduced to my neighbor next to me on the mat. I want to be greeted at the door by a warm welcoming face. I want to know that if I don't know what I'm doing, that's okay, I'm still welcome. I want to connect and grow in my practice with others. And that's what non-intimidating means to me- what does it mean to you?



Yin Yoga

In December, we are adding a few more Yin Yoga classes. In this guest blog post, I have asked our 2 Yin Yoga instructors, Lisa Schaefer and Nathan Paulus, to share their view on what Yin means to each of them. Enjoy and come join a class soon!

Lisa Schaefer

Yin is still pretty undiscovered in Chicago and I would love to help spread the word about this wonderful style of yoga. Yin was founded over thirty years ago by Paulie Zink, who is also a Master in the martial art of Kung Fu. He studied the natural movement of animals for many years and combined it with the five elements (earth, metal, water, wood and fire) into what is now called Yin yoga. Yin's focus is on strengthening the bones and the surrounding connective tissues. If practiced on a regular basis, the body becomes more flexible and eases into postures.

I was lucky enough to be involved in one of his recent workshops here in Chicago and learned so much from the Father of Yin Yoga. I am a big believer in making a style your own and teaching to the beat of your own drum. Paulie laid a great foundation for me in order to teach his style of yoga to my students. Most people think that Yin is holding postures for 3 to 5 minutes, and while this is true to certain practitioners and instructors, it is not my style. I have adapted to more of a fluid motion in my practice, so that there is a flow from one posture to the next. I feel that it is important to stretch the body, but also allow the body to adjust/adapt to a specific posture. Each person's ability to execute a particular posture varies from one person to the next. One student might be able to hold a posture for five minutes, while another may only be able to hold it for thirty seconds. Yin is an ever-changing practice. With daily practice you will feel your body become more natural in its flow during your Yin sequence. This is the beauty of building your own daily regimen. I hope to challenge, educate and bring enjoyment into each class that I teach. It is my goal to bring a fresh and new perspective of Yin with each student that takes a class for the first time or even someone that is a regular practitioner of it.

Lisa's classes will be offered at 7 am on Wednesdays and 9:15 am on Sundays beginning in December.

Nathan Paulus

A Yin practice places more emphasis on internal observation and awareness with more passivity both physically and mentally. There are fewer standing postures and poses that require a greater output of energy; instead, the body becomes attenuated to the effects of gravity and how to minimize resistance. Both dynamic and static movements are still employed, but the quality of both movement and stillness is one of effortlessness. Yin classes provide an easy route to release base line nervous tension that accumulates with daily stressors, they are also wonderful for learning about asymmetrical and paradoxical muscle/energy patterns present in the body. Typically, a yin class will leave the practitioner with a relaxed, calm and easy going state of being; which in my mind, is a wonderful way to employ one’s self in the external world.

Nathan’s class will be offered on Mondays at 7 am beginning in December.

The Resistance

I recently read the book The War of Art by Steven Pressfield. In it, he talks a lot about The Resistance within us all to really do our ART. We want to write a novel, but we never find the time. We want to improve our health, get in shape, but we don't exercise or eat right. We want to read more books, but we watch more TV instead. We make excuses, we look for deterrents, we get side-tracked from our goals. We want to quit our jobs, but we feel like we can't. We start to listen to the naysayers that tell us that we can't do it. We all have this internal voice that fights us every step of the way. The closer you get to actually doing what you want to do, the harder the Resistance fights. The Resistance is logical and rational too. What are you crazy? you think you can run a marathon and you have cancer? Very logical indeed. You think that you can work 50 hours a week and write a novel? Very rational.

In order to open this studio, I fought The Resistance every step of the way. The voice in my head (and a few voices outside my head) told me I was crazy, didn't know what I was doing, wasn't good enough, not smart enough, too introverted, and all around unworthy of being a studio owner. I looked for excuses as to why I shouldn't do it. It's a bad economy. No one wants to do yoga anymore, they go to gyms. There is too much competition. There are too many risks. Every day there was a set-back. I had to be somewhat irrational, illogical. Proceed even when I saw stop signs. I had to step outside my comfort zone. After seven weeks of being open, I still fight The Resistance everyday. It never stops. I worry, I get anxious, I get disappointed when I have an empty class. Everyday I second-guess myself. But I believe in this studio and what it will bring to people's lives. I am the most happy I have been in my life.

My husband told me the other day that my studio probably brings out this Resistance in a lot of people. There are people every week that come in and say that they have always wanted to do yoga, but there wasn't anything close by. Now there is. The Resistance has to work even harder to get you not to come in.

I will continue everyday to fight my Resistance. Fight yours too. I promise you, it's worth it.

In Defense of Yoga Instructors

So, I don't normally do this, but I am going to vent a little bit about something that has been bothering me for awhile.

I've been hearing rumors that other studios that have run Groupons or other 'special deals' then dock the pay of the instructors that are teaching to these deal-buying students. For example, some studios pay instructors a per-head fee - let's say $5.00. If an instructor has a class of 10 people, then they earn $50 for that class. Sounds fair, right? Well, if the studio decides to run a Groupon or other promotion, they then tell the instructors that anyone that comes into their class to redeem a Groupon will only earn them $1.00. Does the instructor then teach to this student less? Does the instructor skip on teaching more advanced poses because this particular student is only worth a dollar? No, they are expected to (and should) give them the same level of service as the person that is worth $5.00.

What I think the studio is failing to understand is that the value that the instructors give to the students does not change with what the student is paying the studio. The instructor most likely has gone through extensive (and expensive) training. To cut the instructors' pay because the studio decided to charge their students less, in my opinion, is just plain disrespectful to what they do and it undervalues their expertise as yoga instructors.

This frustrates me to no end. Please, yoga instructors, don't put up with this.

What's your opinion on this? Am I the only one that thinks this should not be tolerated?

(p.s. Just so you know, Tula pays their instructors a fair and agreed upon wage ALWAYS, even when no one attends their class, even when there are studio specials or promotional deals, even on students who enter the class for free. I value the service that my instructors give to my students and I compensate them accordingly.)

Yoga in NYC


Oct. 18th was my 37th birthday.... sigh.

To celebrate, my husband and I took a short trip to NYC. I love NYC. I decided that while we were there, we would check out a couple of NY yoga studios. I decided to go to 2 completely different places - The Dharma Center and Strala. Here's my thoughts on both experiences:

The Dharma Center
Yoga Master, Dharma Mittra, has been teaching yoga in New York since 1967. A pioneer of yoga today. Andrew and I signed up for a "Meditation and Self-Awareness" class with him. I was nervous and I had no idea what to expect. When we entered, the desk person said but 2 words to us - "names please". We entered the space into a small lounge area where a few students were relaxing. Everyone was silent. We had no idea where to put our stuff or where the studio was. We just waited. A few minutes later, yogis started to come out of the studio and we entered. Everyone was grabbing blankets, so we did the same. The mood was calm, relaxed, and reverent. Dharma took a chair in the front of us. He spoke about awareness of the 'self' - the self being the collective 'self'. He spoke about having compassion for others and about getting in touch with others on a mental level. We did lots of chanting, a few breathing exercises and a lot of listening to Dharma. While he tried to keep the mood light by occasionally making jokes, the class was very, very serious. There were people in the class that sat in lotus with their eyes closed the entire time. Overall, it was a great experience, but a bit intimidating for me. Next time, I'll definitely come back to experience an asana class with him.

Strala
The next day, we woke up bright and early to make an 8:00 am STRONG class
with Tara Stiles (aka "the Yoga Rebel") at Strala. Tara got in the elevator with us on the way up to the studio. She smiled brightly and complimented my WhetherBag yoga bag! As we entered the space, the desk person warmly greeted us and Tara asked where we from. She was extremely warm and welcoming. We chatted for a bit about Chicago (she's from Joilet) and Tula. When she found out it was my birthday, she gave me a big hug. The studio was a large open space with white walls and large windows in the front. Tara docked her iPod and we began. The class was challenging. We did a ton of standing poses and inversions. She did not utter one Sanskrit word - everything was English, which I found to be interesting. Throughout class, I could hear her giggling with students. The vibe was light-hearted and fun. The class wasn't heated, but by the end I was drenched in sweat. As we left, she gave me another hug and said she couldn't wait to come and practice at Tula!

So what did I take away from these 2 very different experiences?

The Dharma center was very 'yogic'- from the silence of the students to the smell of incense, the beaded curtains to the old red carpet in the studio. There was a air of reverence and sacredness (is that a word?). Dharma honors and embodies the yoga tradition throughout his space. Our chanting contained all Sanskrit words. While do love being in this type of environment, it is really hard for me to connect to it. It is so far outside my day to day life in the modern world (not to mention all the chanting in a foreign language). Although what he said (in English) I completely found meaningful, true and applicable to modern life.

On the other hand, I felt completely comfortable in Strala. I knew what was expected of me and I connected to Tara and the people around me quite easily. There was a sense of humor about things that I love so much. No one was afraid to laugh, smile, and chat with their neighbor. BUT there was a little something missing - the yoga-ish part of the practice. I think it was mainly because there was no chanting, no Sanskrit, no Namaste. We could have been practicing any number of different group exercises - not just yoga.

So all of this leads me to ask - what makes yoga, yoga? I don't really have a good answer for this, do you?

Here are the websites to the studios, so the next time you are in NYC, check them out!

Contridictions and the Power of Diversity

Over the course of this week, as we at Tula settled into our routines, I've gotten a chance to sit down with many of my instructors and talk about yoga - philosophy, schools of thought, teaching styles. What I discovered is a whole lot of contradictions and diversity. One instructor informed me that she does not believe in using props ('props cause injuries', was her statement). Another instructor informed me that we need more props as they were essential to her class. I asked the instructors for recommendations of studios to visit while in NY next week - I got lists of studios that ranged from extremely traditional (Dharma Mittra) to the extremely non-traditional (Tara Stiles). I even got a recommendation to go to a certain instructor and then a recommendation to specifically stay away from that particular instructor! I received differing philosophies and thoughts about how to handle student 'assists', whether or not to teach headstands, and what was the 'right' balance of western, fast-paced, aerobic-type yoga and the more slower-paced, meditative forms of yoga.

I got to thinking about all these seemingly striking contradictions in these instructors that all work at Tula. How can I have such differing perspectives and styles while still trying to build the 'Tula' brand and identity? Why would you come to my studio when you have no idea what you are going to get?

The answer that I came up with is that this is exactly why you should come and practice at Tula. There is strength and power in diversity and differing opinions. At the core of it, yoga is yoga is yoga. Whether you are practicing in a rural part of India on a mountaintop or in your Manhattan apartment in your designer jeans. Everyone is different - personalities, beliefs and body-types, shouldn't your yoga studio match this reality? Is yoga really one size & style fits all? I don't think so.

I truly believe that yoga is for everyone. Come in and find your yoga, your voice, your opinion. Take classes from each of our amazing instructors and find out what you like, what you don't like. If you are like me, you will probably like bits and pieces of each or the style and pace that you crave will change with your mood or the season.What better way to do that than by offering a wide range of diversity in instructors?

Eventually Tula will evolve into what this great community wants it to be, but for now I will continue to seek out diversity and contradictions so that you can make that choice for yourself.